13 Things I’m Thankful for As an ‘Office Mom’


Do I wish I could be there for every cute moment of my girls’ lives? You bet I do. But when it starts to get me down (pretty much every time my phone pings with another adorable picture from the nanny) I think about all the other not-so-cute moments I’m missing (like the “accidents” at the playground and the tantrums at the mall). I remember that, as an office mom, I get to not cry over spilled milk. For all the other moms whose 9-to-5 doesn’t involve juice boxes, here are a few reasons to be thankful.

1. The wavy bob

Otherwise I’d just be going to work with slept-on, unbrushed hair. I used to spend precious morning minutes trying to approximate a blow-out, lying to myself that doing a half-assed job on the back was an acceptable downgrade to moderately presentable. Now, thanks to the wavy bob (and when I go long enough between cuts, the long wavy bob, or lob), I hop out of bed, take a quick shower, and hop back in for anywhere from five to 15 minutes. It actually looks better that way!


2. Booties

Heels + socks = stylish walkability—in skirts or pants! So long, Working Girl; hello, walking girl.

3. The quiet car

Have you not heard of this? My commuter train has a single car every morning and every night that’s designated “quiet,” meaning no talking or cellphones or noise of any kind. Meaning quiet. It’s heaven. I might ride it even if I didn’t have to commute to work every day. Shhhhh!

4. Business trips

Yes, traveling for work can be disruptive to family life and exhausting for all involved. And yes, I miss the girls and my husband awfully, and if I had to do it more it would really suck. But honestly, every few months when I have to go away for a couple nights, I get a king-size bed to myself, room service with a wine list, and wifi. Sometimes it’s nice to check in and check out.

5. The Magic Eraser

I’m sure it’s probably horrible for the environment and knocking a couple points off the household brain cell count, but it’s the only thing coming between a lipstick/marker-wielding toddler and a ruined $300 handbag. It really is magic!

6. The erg machine

When I can’t find the 45 minutes to an hour-plus I used to take pre-kiddos to hit the gym or go for a run (i.e., always), I put on my headphones and row. Fifteen minutes later, my head is clear, my heart’s pumping, and my lungs are full. In terms of money, time, wear and tear on your body, the ergometer is the single best ROI exercise, full stop. 

7. Polyester and other non-natural fibers

Used to be I wouldn’t be caught dead wearing anything other than cotton, silk, wool, or maybe rayon in a pinch. Now, if the tag doesn’t say 50 percent something that was invented in a lab in New Jersey, I put it back. Stretchy, stain-resistant, machine-washable? Sold!

8. Bright red lipstick

One swipe and you’ve got a look. Dresses up (parties, meetings) or down (supermarket runs, Saturday morning soccer games). An office mom’s armor.

9. The village

You know, the one it takes to raise a child? I’ve got a nanny the girls love and I trust, a husband who has at least three meals he can make at a moment’s notice and is learning to braid hair, and parents who’ll ask to take the girls for a Saturday sleepover and are ready to pop over when I have a last-minute late-in-the-day meeting. With all the turmoil in the world, I know how lucky I am—we all are—and I’m so, so grateful.

10. Unpolished nails

Thanks to a New York Times investigation of nail salons, my unpolished fingers and dry, cracked mom feet are an ethical — as opposed to aesthetic, temporal, or financial — statement.

11. Smile.amazon.com

This is Amazon’s give-back feature. Pick a charity and it gets a tiny bit of eligible transactions (which is most). We’re talking like a millionth of a percent, but still, everything helps, right? Makes me feel better about all those $6 cords I order on Amazon Prime.

12. Frozen shrimp

It doesn’t go bad, takes 10 minutes to defrost in a bowl of water, and I can throw it into pasta, do a quick stir-fry, or toss it into soup or a salad and it’s a legit, home-cooked, healthy-ish meal. Makes me feel like the Enjoli woman.

13. Coming home

As much as I like the challenges and satisfactions of office life (and, yeah, that paycheck is pretty nice), there’s nothing better than opening the front door and hearing two little girls yell “Mommy!” as they come running. Not one thing.

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