love-and-sex

Style

I Let My Daughter Wear Whatever She Wants

When I was 14 and graduating from junior high school, I wore what I damn well pleased. “What I damn well pleased” happened to be a slinky evening gown. It was a basic slinky evening gown, mind you, sleek and powder blue without frills. Since I was a late bloomer, I stuffed my foam bikini […]

Sex

Lessons From My Sexual Dry Spell

My husband and I have been together for 15 years. For the first half of our time together, we had a lot of sex — meaning, it was unusual for us to go more than 2 days in a row without at least a quickie. If he didn’t initiate, then I certainly would. “We just […]